How to Stop Hating Yourself for Past Mistakes (Matthew Hussey)

You choose what you make out of every situation. Some girls feel undesirable when they are not in a relationship. They jump from one boyfriend to the next, looking for someone to validate their life and make them whole. Romantic relationships are a lot of fun, but being single can be one of the best times of your life because of the freedom it brings. Take this time alone to get in touch with who you really are and love yourself more so you can feel good every day even when you are alone.

Dating is difficult, sometimes things work out and other times, it doesn’t. It’s an up and down ride and at times, we run into dating situations that throw us for a loop and bring us down to a new low. These are the kinds of situations that bring us down and almost want to throw in the towel for the dating scene. But, there is a way to get back in the dating game stronger and healthier than before. We can lick our wounds, learn from our mistakes, and improve our knowledge and understanding of ourselves.

Clubs are perfect stomping grounds for dating, everybody expects the ‘picking up’ behavior to take place. How you approach or act in the club can make or break it for you when it comes to moving you onto the next stage in the dating game. If you can follow these 5 recommendations, then you’ll be more apt to move past getting the hand in your face.

Imagine the satisfaction of walking up to your ex-boyfriend and he can hardly say hello because you look so good, almost better than you did when you were still dating each other. And then you might be familiar with the feeling of being seen by him in your pyjamas while carrying a bag of comfort foods like potato chips and ice cream from the supermarket. Now, which of those two scenarios would you prefer to be in? The one with you looking gorgeous, or the one with you looking like you let yourself go?

The journey of how to find love is often fraught with answering personal questions like “how to find me a man” who perfectly fits my criteria – criteria that is often borrowed from the idea of a perfect man projected by mainstream media. The same standards of beauty that magazines and movies portray reshape our ideals of who is perfect to the point that we often see a man’s shortcomings instead of his positive qualities.

Before you begin flirting it’s important to know that first you must be comfortable within yourself before building comfort with another person. Keeping the conversation toeing the line of innuendos and sexy confidence can be a daunting thought at first but practice makes perfect and once you get the hang of it you’ll have fun doing so.

You’ve spotted him, you like his look, and now you need to know how to attract a guy like him. It can be tough trying to muster up the courage to even say hi, nevertheless attempt to wrangle a first date from him.

Older men might seem like they should have no problems at all, answering the questions, how can I find love? Or how do I find love? Yet, the truth is, there are many of you out there who are still searching for your one true love. Finding a soulmate should be easy for you if you know the things that girls find attractive in older men. Women get attracted to older men because they are far more mature with their outlook in life than their younger counterparts.

How do you keep up with this highly competitive and rapidly changing world and manage your stress levels and stay healthy… and look for Mr or Ms Right at the same time? Well from my observations at a typical suburban nightclub recently, lots of you are not doing very well!

Love is in the air and the craving for a soul mate is just reaching newer heights. All the singles looking for love should get their dating basics right if they want their soul ‘meet’ to be successful and enter a new relationship. Dating is your first introduction to your potential partner and it is also the first opportunity for you to introduce yourselves.

Perhaps you are recently divorced or separated. Perhaps it has been a long time since you have been in a meaningful relationship. Or perhaps you are stuck in a relationship that doesn’t provide you with the emotional intimacy you need. In any case, you are feeling lonely – very much alone, unloved, and unsupported. What can you do?

Satisfying and healthy relationships that can sustain the test of time should be built on shared values, interests and chemistry. Each of these aspects need to be present like a cog in a well running machine. If one is missing, then unhappiness, dissatisfaction and/or break up is likely.