How to Be Confident in Spite of Your Insecurities (Matthew Hussey)

Do you know that women will lie to you? When it comes to what women want in a partner they will flat out lie to you about it. They don’t lie to you on purpose, but they lie because our question is wrong. We shouldn’t ask what types of men do you like, we should ask how do you like to feel around your partner.

Shhhhh. This is one of your True Love Saboteur’s secret weapons…she knows that without these two words, your soul mate search can’t get any traction. Don’t tell her I spilled the beans, OK?

Somehow, your Saboteur has gotten the idea that you are safest living alone. She is convinced that you would rather be alone than happy. Ouch. Doubtful? How do YOU explain how you have manifested singleness over all these years….and done it so completely?

The Christmas season is fast approaching, the tree have shed their leaves, thanksgiving has come and gone, and the stores and homes in your part of the country are all beginning to bear the marks of Christmas. If you’re a single adult this can be a fairly difficult time of year especially if you’re the type of person who actually does desire to be in a relationship. While everyone is snuggling up next to their significant other you’re sitting alone on the couch. While the ball is dropping and their in a loving embrace and passionate lip lock with their partner you’re standing in the cold and it can be hard not to let this all get you down during this family and couple oriented time so here are a few ways to help make this season bearable and help you to avoid feeling like a complete outcast.

To attract the opposite sex just looking good is not enough. Since humans have this chemical known as Pheromones in them, which detects the smell of a person from the opposite gender and make the brain react accordingly, it is super important to smell good as well. Scientific tests have also shown that the female of any species, including humans, are on the lookout for an attractive smell from the male, which helps them choose a mate.

Getting through the holiday season when you are single can be difficult, but it’s not impossible! Here are some suggestions for you to make it a little easier.

What does all this science talk prove? It shows that crying your eyes out will actually usher you into a feeling of well-being. And well-being is the state of Love. Let me repeat that. Well-Being equals Love. That means that your very own tears, that you can choose to release, are a Self Love Potion.

Why are women so attracted to bad boys? What makes women go weak at the knees when you talk about bad boys?

The dating world can prove to be very intimidating for sure, it is even worse if you are a shy guy. This is why we have put these useful dating tips for shy guys together for you. They will prove to be a great resource and will have you out dating before you know it.

Did you just come from a terrible break-up? Do you feel that you’ll never be able to love again? Are you willing to believe that? You better get that negativity out of your system. Heartbreaks can be hard for a person. Besides, who would want to be loved and get hurt eventually? Sad to say, there are relationships that don’t end up in happy endings. If you are one of those unfortunate people, don’t worry. You can find love and new beginnings are bound to happen. Life after a break-up can be pretty hard but you can manage. After all, there’s always a rainbow after the rain.

You’re single and feel as though that is the way it is going to stay for the rest of your life. Even though you want a boyfriend, you just can’t seem to find one that is right for you or even find one in general. With each day that passes, you feel as though you are just doomed to be single forever.

So you are single.  Let’s face it; no one likes to be single.  It can be lonely when all of your friends are going out on their dates with their boyfriends and you are invited as the third wheel.