Bed Improvement Sexual Tips for Men # 11
Self-esteem: the hottest aphrodisiac
True self-confidence is the sexiest … of ALL the sexy attributes women look for in a man.
Sexier than packs of 6, sexier than the look of a handsome guy or the prank of a bad boy.
If you walk with low self-esteem, no amount of soft lines, the Calvin Klein cologne or cheeky smiles will attract the woman of your dreams.
She will smell the lack of authenticity.
Some say that the attainment of self-confidence arises from the demonstration of competence to oneself, the acquisition of a series of victories. Surely there is truth in that. But it’s not the whole story.
In my book, true trust can only derive from self-love. This is accessible to everyone, regardless of competition or so-called “success”.
This is a confidence that comes from the inside out and shines in you like an expression of carefree reality. It’s refreshing and demands confidence and yes, attraction.
Haven’t you realized you’re the most charismatic when you don’t really care what someone thinks of you?
Yes, like two minutes before entering the room. You were funny and cleverly convincing.
Then he showed up and constricted you, worried that something dumb would escape your lips.
So let me break it down to start your search for genuine trust:
1. Bring your shame to light:
Pay close attention to everything you do:
Hide from others
Reject about yourself
Think about whether or not you should be saying, doing, or thinking
You have not forgiven yourself
These are the things that hold you back.
2. Try to embrace each of your shames:
You are who you are. You did what you did. And if you’re something like 100% of the population, you’ll probably make a “mistake” again tomorrow.
When you embrace your shame you have nothing to hide. The need to contain yourself with strength and caution leaves you, and you are free to be your true self.
To get extra points, get out and be vulnerable – share your shames with others, and you’ll know you’re really moving forward.
3. Set strong and loving boundaries:
Safe people do not apologize for having standards for what they will allow and will not allow into their lives.
These rules honor your sincere needs and desires.
4. Drop the “grab him like a man” attitude, “be the man”, show the “like a man” attitude:
A genuinely confident man has nothing to prove.
If you want to cry, then cry.
If it’s fun, you’ll laugh.
If music makes you want to dance, do it.
Observe all the rules you have about how a man should look and challenge yourself to overcome them.
What if you had permission to express your power, your dynamism, your sexuality, and your vulnerability?
No matter who you are, I don’t think there is anyone who doesn’t benefit from a self-confidence review.
And yes, women will feel it. Maybe they’ll tell you “Is there something different about you, have you cut your hair? Lose some weight? You look good!”
And if they don’t, it really doesn’t matter, because you’ll have too much fun being yourself.
#women #reveal #bed
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